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Mental Health blog focusing on anxiety, mood, children, parenting, neurodiveregence, and struggling

Healing Family Dynamics After Addiction

11/19/2025

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The house feels different now. The shouting has stopped, but so has the laughter. You can feel the danger of emotional triggers through quiet hallways. For families touched by addiction, silence often arrives long after the chaos ends. It’s the uneasy calm between who everyone was and who they are trying to become. The path of healing family dynamics begins here, not with forgiveness, but with recognition — the simple act of admitting that things have changed and that healing must follow.

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Body Positivity: How To Speak To Children About Halloween And Holiday Sugar

10/22/2025

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The relationship we have with food can be a lifelong frustration for many.  Smolak L. (2012) indicated that children as young as age six may start to emphasize body dissatisfaction. With fast diet trends and emphasis on body image, many find it difficult to find the healthy balance required to love their body.  In research conducted by León, M. P., González-Martí, I., & Contreras-Jordán, O. R. (2021), four year olds were talking about differences between two figures for height and weight. With so much negativity often surrounding body size, it's no wonder that many adults are trying to leave this negative space and provide body positivity to our youngest and most vulnerable population.  In this post we will review some conversation builders we can use with children and how we can express body positivity through the holidays and year round. ​

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Sleep Schedule: Helping Parents Create Healthy Bedtime Routines

8/11/2025

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Some types of play before bed may increase sleep difficulties
Sleep disturbances can be a caused by changes, growth spurts, fears, and problems at school. Sleep issues can lead to health concerns, behavioral issues, lower grades, dysregulation, and can create communication challenges. Not to mention the extra stress and frustration for wanting to help a child sleep who, for some reason, may fight their adults through the process. If you’re like many parents out there, you may be experiencing sleep difficulties with your child when it’s close to bedtime. In this post, we will be discussing a few factors of sleep routines and we will provide some tools that can be tailored to your families needs.

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How to Raise a Confident Child Without Hovering or Pressure

7/24/2025

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Your kid doesn’t need to be the loudest in the room to feel strong in their own skin. Confidence in children isn't a personality trait — it’s a muscle, built through moments, friction, and the invisible cues they absorb from the adults around them. And no, it doesn’t come from praise alone. It comes from space to try, struggle, and recover. The goal here isn’t to control outcomes — it’s to shape the conditions where belief in self can grow without collapse.

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Sensory Overload: 3 Tips to Calm An Overstimulated Brain

7/9/2025

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Did you know that irritability is often an add-on feeling? We’re likely to feel irritable and overstimulated when factors are out of control and when we don’t feel comfortable in our body. When we don’t feel like our best selves, we’re more likely to have a hard day.
Our overstimulated selves are quicker to respond, are less likely to think of negative consequences, and we’re more likely to respond with bigger feelings. The outcome is more likely to be negative. With higher temperatures, summer schedule changes, and more of a temperamental political climate, overstimulation is higher than average for many. In this article, we’re going to discuss 3 tools that you can use with yourself and your community to relegate yourself.

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Why Is Change So Hard? A Look At Dynamics And How To Make It Easier

8/23/2024

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Have you found that you’re experiencing similar weeks and are stressing about the variables? Or perhaps you notice difficulties completing similar tasks. Whether we’re starting change, in the midst of it, or waiting on it, adjustments can have a huge impact on our mood, daily dynamics, and overall mental health. In this post we will discuss the algorithm and explore some tips on helping with a smoother transition.

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Unbalanced Grief: Coping With Terminal Cancer

8/1/2024

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Grief is a feeling that many know,  although it's likely we wish we didn't. Bereavement after end stage cancer is so difficult and the loss of a loved one is immeasurable. Together, it may feel that it would be impossible to heal. In this blog, I will explore some strategies to help you, your family, and the cancer community to process and grieve. Know that as you start and continue this journey of healing that there is more than one "right" way to grieve a loss. The overall goal is not to forget but to balance our feelings in remembering the love and the light and not the illness.  To live in the pain without breaks would be unbearable. To try to only ignore and hide would likely lead to unhealthy tendencies. Let's explore finding a balance for you.

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Big Feelings Overload: The Art of Co-regulation and De-escalation

7/24/2024

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During our lifelong goal of growth and learning, we spend a lot of time trying to understand ourselves and people around us. Emotional intelligence is crucial in development, social norms, and our relationships. And yet, it can be hard for many to understand their tendencies, their habits, and their calming strategies. So just what is emotional regulation and how do we help our youth with it when we as adults are still learning?

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Welcome to Summer: The Season Of Change

5/17/2024

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With the warming temperatures and school bells on mute, summer is often a major time of change for most. Individuals are likely to experience mental health changes, physical changes, and life changes in the next few months. Sound like you or a loved one? Here’s what we can keep in mind for a smoother transition.

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Stages Of Communication: How To Discuss Medical Treatments With Our Youth

2/5/2024

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*complimentary mantra coloring sheets attached
Have you noticed more opportunities to discuss health with your child? Have they been asking more questions about something they heard on the news? Have you recently donated resources to an organization centered around health? Perhaps more conversations are centered around someone in the family undergoing treatment. Whatever your reason for starting the conversation, we want our youth to feel heard and supported while talking about illness.

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Megan Bowling, M.A., LMFT 
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist | CA #100409
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