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Cognitive Distortions: The Anxious Thoughts That Split Us

10/23/2019

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As a follow up from the last blog, when we discussed the anxiety cycle, today we will be discussing cognitive distortions. Cognitive distortions are negative ways of thinking about ourselves or situations that involve us. We all have a tendency to use negative logic but some of us are more likely to have them more frequently than others. Sometimes, these negative beliefs are so ingrained that it’s hard for us to view it another way. ​
I recommend you take a moment and reflect about your recent conversations with yourself. Take note of times you have used negative logic with yourself. Notice if you have a tendency to re-frame these cognitive distortions by looking at the evidence.
Different types of cognitive distortions:
▪️All or nothing - I’m the best employee/I’m the worst employee
▪️Labeling - I’m a loser
▪️Should and must - using these words as if we have failed
▪️Mental filter - focusing on the bad and ignoring the good 
▪️Disqualifying the positive - ignoring the good
▪️Over-generalizations - guessing the future based on one event
▪️Jumping to conclusions - assuming we know the future or what others will do
▪️Emotional reasoning - we feel it so it must be true
▪️Personalization - blaming only ourselves when it’s others responsibility
▪️Catastrophising - turning molehills into a mountain


By looking at the evidence of a thought, we can try to reduce its ability to turn into a negative belief. Let’s take, for example, the belief that we are the worst employee (all or nothing reasoning). Then we could look at the evidence. We can think to ourselves: I’m rarely late, I try my best, and my supervisor provides positive feedback most of the time. Therefore, the conclusion would be that the original thought was false. 

Sounds easy, right? With more practice, these cognitive distortions will be easier to catch. Remember, it’s not about always having something positive to say about ourselves. It’s about accurately recognizing our strengths and areas of improvement. 

For more information and practice, contact a  Mental Health professional who specialized Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) in your area. 

Stay well,
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Megan Bowling, M.A., LMFT is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She has been in the mental health field for more than ten years and is passionate to share mental health wellness strategies.

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3/9/2023 01:57:22 am

Cognitive distortions are the anxious thoughts that split us. They are the things we tell ourselves that make us feel anxious and stressed. And they are often the things that we believe to be true, even though they may not be. There are many different types of cognitive distortions, but some of the most common ones include: black-and-white thinking, catastrophizing, perfectionism, and mind reading.

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10/26/2023 01:24:10 pm

Hello mate nice posst

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