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Mental Health blog focusing on anxiety, mood, children, parenting, neurodiveregence, and struggling

How to Raise a Confident Child Without Hovering or Pressure

7/24/2025

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Your kid doesn’t need to be the loudest in the room to feel strong in their own skin. Confidence in children isn't a personality trait — it’s a muscle, built through moments, friction, and the invisible cues they absorb from the adults around them. And no, it doesn’t come from praise alone. It comes from space to try, struggle, and recover. The goal here isn’t to control outcomes — it’s to shape the conditions where belief in self can grow without collapse.

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Sensory Overload: 3 Tips to Calm An Overstimulated Brain

7/9/2025

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Did you know that irritability is often an add-on feeling? We’re likely to feel irritable and overstimulated when factors are out of control and when we don’t feel comfortable in our body. When we don’t feel like our best selves, we’re more likely to have a hard day.
Our overstimulated selves are quicker to respond, are less likely to think of negative consequences, and we’re more likely to respond with bigger feelings. The outcome is more likely to be negative. With higher temperatures, summer schedule changes, and more of a temperamental political climate, overstimulation is higher than average for many. In this article, we’re going to discuss 3 tools that you can use with yourself and your community to relegate yourself.

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Understanding Triggers: Identifying and Managing Relapse Risks

5/22/2025

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Relapse is a common and often painful part of the recovery process. Many individuals find themselves surprised by how quickly progress can unravel. As a result, identifying and managing relapse risks is a critical step in long-term recovery. Recognizing what leads to a slip and learning how to de-escalate can make the difference between staying on track and starting over. With the right tools and mindset,triggers become signals, not setbacks.

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Addressing Co-Occurring Disorders: Mental Health and Substance Abuse

3/28/2025

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Mental health challenges and substance abuse frequently intertwine, forming a complicated web for those caught in its grip. Anxiety, depression, and trauma push us toward substances as a way to cope. On the other hand, frequent substance use can trigger or intensify existing mental health struggles. This cycle makes it harder to break free, as each issue fuels the other, creating deeper emotional and physical distress. Recognizing the connection between mental health and substance abuse is the first step toward lasting recovery and finding effective treatment. This article explores why these disorders are so closely linked, the challenges of dual diagnosis, and the best strategies for treatment. It offers clear steps toward healing, making recovery a realistic goal.

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Planting Healthy Habits This Spring

3/18/2025

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My clients know that one of the common examples I use in my sessions is how we need to pull weeds out of the garden we tend to.  Looking and growing beautiful flowers is wonderful but having healthy soil is imperative for overall success. The same is true for our mental health and the growth mindset that we can encourage within.

Spring is often associated with renewal, fresh start, and progress. When we can focus our energy and growth toward our minds an bodies we are more likely to feel positive effects with our emotional well-being and growth. With spring starting this week, we will discuss and review a few healthy tips to tend to your own mental health garden. 

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What Is A Marriage and Family Therapist and How Can They Help Me Feel Better?

1/27/2025

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Professionals in the mental health field may have different areas of focus.  Psychiatrists often times focus on medication management and at risk concerns.  Case managers will often serve at the hub of connection between different therapeutic team members.  School based counselors will often be available at school to help reduce symptoms in a school based setting. Social Workers can provide resources and often provide therapeutic services as well. While there are many different titles that therapeutic professionals may possess, in this post we are going to focus on Marriage and Family Therapists (MFT)

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Coping with Grief and Loss Without Substances

1/17/2025

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Grief and loss are deeply personal experiences that affect everyone differently. They often bring overwhelming emotions, including sadness, anger, or guilt. While it’s natural to want relief from this pain, turning to substances for coping can lead to long-term harm. Coping with grief and loss in a healthy way is essential for healing and reclaiming balance in life. So, here, I'll explore practical, substance-free approaches to managing grief, helping you
navigate the journey with resilience and clarity. By prioritizing healthier coping mechanisms, you can honor your emotions, embrace healing, and move forward with purpose and hope.

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5 Strategic Ways To Help Your 2025 New Year’s Resolutions Stick

12/26/2024

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With the start of 2025 right around the corner, this time can be a time of self reflection and processing. Maybe you've been spending more time on social media envious of others' posts. Maybe you have been reflecting on your progress in 2024 and want to make changes to reflect a goal.  Maybe you've had recurrent thoughts about wanting to change, but feeling lost on how to get started.

Ongoing questions remain.  What would I like to see over the next year? What are my yearly goals? Can I celebrate the wins along the way?
How do I plan to follow through on these goals? In this post, we will talk about 5 strategic ways to help your 2025 new year's resolutions stick.



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Techniques for Managing Anger and Frustration

11/21/2024

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​Anger and frustration are common emotions that everyone experiences at times. Whether it’s due to work stress, personal relationships, or unexpected challenges, these feelings can become overwhelming. It is important to understand that feeling angry or frustrated is completely normal. However, unmanaged emotions can lead to negative consequences for mental health. Learning effective techniques for managing anger and frustration can significantly improve overall well-being. For those struggling with addiction, mastering these techniques can provide vital support during recovery. When you learn to manage your emotions, you can handle triggers more effectively. This promotes healthier relationships and a greater sense of peace in daily life. Embracing these skills empowers individuals to navigate life's challenges more smoothly. By taking the time to understand your emotions, you can create a more balanced and fulfilling life, free from the burdens that unmanaged anger and frustration can impose.

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Election Stress - A Letter

11/15/2024

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About a week after elections have concluded, I’m hearing from many that they are worried. People are sharing concerns for the future and processing the possible outcomes of change. Feelings are high, anxiety may be through the roof, and the stress may be affecting many areas of your life. Let’s explore together 5 tools that may help the change feel a little lighter.

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Megan Bowling, M.A., LMFT 
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist | CA #100409
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